STRUGGLES FACED BY SINGLE PARENTS

One of the most difficult things a single parent can struggle with is having to do everything by themselves with no one else to blame if it does not get done. They quickly learn that if something has to be done, they are the one that has to do it. Even if you have developed a network of friends with which each helps each other, you may find there are some jobs to be done that no one is capable of or has time to do.  Accepting and learning from challenges is part of a growing and developing process that we never outgrow. The day we stop learning is the day we begin to die.

You are No Longer Single, but a Package Deal

When you decide to start dating again, remember you are no longer a single individual, you come now as a package—you have children. As the saying goes--love me, love my kids.If the person you are dating does not like children or is not interested in having a family, especially a ready-made one, break it off quick before either of you gets too involved and consequently get hurt. There are plenty of people out there who would willing accept a ready-made family, so don't waste your time on someone who won't.

You Don't Have to Be Lonely

Many single parents' worst fear is that of being lonely. Forget it, that's only a myth. Many single parents find they were lonely far more often while in a bad relationship than they are now. Loneliness happens to everyone, even those married. It is a part of life. Deal with it. Focus on the good things about your life, not the negatives. Don't date someone who treats you badly, or spend time with people who are bad influences on your out of your fear of being lonely. Spend your time and energy on people who encourage and uplift you, not pull you down. And never, ever rush into marrying someone as a “cure” for being alone. You will be even more lonely than you are now, and more miserable. Make good friends and relationships—keep looking until you find them.